Thursday, 5 March 2020

A True Friend's Creed

I was quite emotional last night. I was almost going to fall asleep when suddenly recall of what happened to my late hubby, it was my nightmare that kept hunting me. It's almost a year since he passed away and our 12th wedding anniversary is coming very soon. Maybe that's why I became emotional lately and randomly cried whereever I am but mostly when I'm alone driving and during night time. 

It's past midnight, I just breakdown and tears just flowing from my eyes, I wanted to talk to someone that moment so I scroll my messenger to look for my guidance counselor friend if she's online and still awake. So I message her and told her I'm feeling sad. Luckily she replied quickly and with no hesitation, I just straight away told her I'm crying. It's feels good that I can easily open and express my feelings to her and in return she give me words of encouragement how to ease my pain and make me feel calm. She was good on that, and I feel better after hearing her word of wisdom and positive approach how to handle my situation, which I already knew but sometimes I can't help myself and can't control my emotion.

After our conversation, I apologise to her for disturbing her sleeping time and making her stay late knowing she will wake up very early. But instead she told me, anytime or whatever she's doing, I won't hesitate to message or call her because she's happy to help. She then sent me a beautiful quote, I'm so  touched and felt so blessed to have someone I can lean on when I don't have no one to talk to especially in times like this.


  1. How wonderful to have such a person in your life. So sorry to hear of your loss and sadness. Take care.

  2. Friends are so important in good and bad times. I'm glad you had someone to turn to right when you needed them. - Margy

  3. I am glad you have someone you can talk to me. So many people do not.

  4. It’s wonderful to have a true friend like that. I’m so sorry for your loss but happy you have friends to help you in the grieving process.